Looking for LoveRoses are red, violets are blue. Another Valentine's Day but no valentine for you?If this holiday for a "honey" has you down because no one is sending you hearts or flowers, you may be wondering why you haven't been struck by Cupid's arrow.You've studied relationship books and tried social clubs, cooking classes, and dance lessons. You've even ventured on blind dates. What gives? Are you looking for love in the wrong places?"Actually, I think looking is the problem, no matter where," says Carolyn Hax, the Washington Post advice columnist. "It just makes people look desperate, and that's one of the top five ways to send a romantic prospect running in the other direction."